Page
1
Introduction Meet the Editor
Page 2
Reader's Write
Questions & Answers
Have Your Say!
Other Useful Newsletters
Nerds - The Briefing
Work at Home Moms
Anchored Dreams
The RAS means being focussed on what you want, even on a sub-conscious
level. |
 
Mindset
Over the past couple of years Ive received many enquiries from women and
men who would like to work at home just as I do. The enquiries come in the form of
phonecalls, email and written letters, both from all over Australia and from countries on
the other side of the globe. One day I received an email from a lady enquiring about
joining The Internet Home-based Secretaries Network. She wrote of her experience, the work
shed been doing for her boss and how she had wanted to build up her business full
time. She had been discussing aspects of running her business full-time with her boss for
whom she did work at home part-time. Her boss???? Something hit me out of the blue!
She was working at home, doing work for this man and operating with a business name. He
wasnt her boss, but her client! Where was her thinking?
If you work at home, what is your thinking about the work youre doing and the
people you deal with? Are they your bosses? Or
.. your clients? Following is an
extract of the response I sent to this lady:
Your goal is a great one and keep it foremost in your mind. What we think about
most, does happen. A friend and mentor of mine is a doctor in psychosomatic medicine (of
the mind) and he teaches about the RAS - reticular activation system which means that what
you think about, you're drawn towards - your mind is like a magnet. Have you ever just
bought a particular car (or thought about buying one) and see one like it everywhere you
go? That's the RAS. As you think more and more of wanting to work at home, opportunities
will open up - just like they magically appeared!
But patience is a key thing - it took me three years to build to full-time
work at home. I contracted myself out and did a number of part-time jobs (always calling
each one 'my client' - never my boss) and, where I had to sign contracts, had it made out
in my business name and not my personal name. This way, if I got too busy, I could call
someone else in to help. My focus was always my business, never as myself as an employee.
Its not magical really, your eyes, ears and mind have been opened to ALL
possibilities, just like a radar constantly on guard. Things you didnt see or hear
before can now be seen and heard.
The RAS means being focussed on what you want, even on a sub-conscious level. My friend
and mentor's wife told me how shed looked high and low for a particular piece of
cane furniture that she wanted for her home. She checked every store she could think of,
scoured the newspapers for ads and then, one day, when she thought it was furthest from
her mind, and they were driving down the road from home, she noticed a shop she
hadnt seen before. And yet, it had been there all along. Only a few short metres
from home. And, wouldnt you know? The piece of furniture she wanted was on the front
verandah of this store. If shed not been focussed, even on a sub-conscious level, on
this particular piece of furniture, shed probably never have noticed the store.
RAS can work both in a positive and negative way. If you think positively about
the things you'd like to do and achieve, you will be drawn towards ways that will assist
you in doing just that. But, if you think negatively about things that might happen,
they too can happen. Almost like a magical, mystical force working alongside you.
Opportunities will suddenly be seen by you because your eyes are now open to them.
Make the RAS work for you and think positively and strongly towards your goals and
plans for your future in your working life, personal life and family life.
My thanks to Dr. Pete who taught me about this and opened my eyes to my possibilities!
Kathie M. Thomas, Co-Director, T.N.T. Business
Development Services
A transcript of this article was published in Small
Business & Home Based Income Magazine (Australia) in April 1999. |
|
Have Your Say: I work from home. My company ADG Group, Inc is a technical and executive
search firm and also a human resources consulting firm. At first, because of the industry
people weren't that accepting. But as they got to know us and became familiar with our
work they actually admired us. But it wasn't until the whole virtual office, telecommuting
craze came about that we started getting treated with the same respect as a
"suite" based company does. I feel that because my company is homebased we have
to work that much harder to come across professional. Anyone who knows me knows I have an
extremely low tolerance for unprofessional behaviour. In fact a few of my clients say I'm
too professional and need to lighten up! :-) But once you let that guard down your
professionalism is questioned. My home office is so fully equipped that upon first glance,
you would "think" I was in an executive suite! LOL. But that
doesn't make me professional. How I deal with my clients does.
I think working from home has given us an advantage because we spun off a new division
that handles Virtual Team Management/Telecommuting consulting. Now there are companies out
there that want to function as we do, so we opened that division. It's going great too. SO
the moral is, being at home doesn't put limitations on you, rather, it opens you up to new
and inventive ways to stay creative and generate business. ;-) So to all those new SOHOs
out there, believe in yourself, don't set limitations and remember you control the pace of
your business destiny!
My three cents.
Adrienne Graham, ADG Group, Inc., http://www.adggroup.com
Ed's note: This is good advice Adrienne -
working at home doesn't mean you aren't professional and it is up to us to maintain that
professionalism and show the bigger companies that we can compete! |